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Tyrongkojy
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PostSubject: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 6:47 pm

Preferably by someone who actually HAS experience with women. Like, married, maybe. This has NOTHING to do with politics, or religion, or any of that shit. I met the girl online, and we've been talking since before Christmas. Thing is, I've kind of fallen in love with her, even despite never having met. Now I know that chances are nothing can ever come out of this, but I want it to, so I'm going to do my damnest to make it work.

Something... happened today. I don't live anywhere near her. She's in Arizona, and I'm in Canada. I need some advice. What to say, or maybe what to do. I... God, I don't want her to be so scared. So alone. I need some advice.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 7:04 pm

geez online relationships are stupid and shes prbably just using you
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 7:07 pm

I now it's likely, and I am prepared for it. But that doesn't matter to me in the here and now.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 7:08 pm

tell her to meet you then irl
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 7:21 pm

go after her.

you'll regret not doing it - and what do you have to lose? (BESIDES an illusion - which is ALWAYS good to lose)
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 7:40 pm

I think I will. I'll get a ticket to Arizona and go there as soon as possible. I need to.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 7:44 pm

good. i applaud your efforts in the name of love.

btw, you are officially cool. Cool
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 7:58 pm

Thanks. I only wish it weren't nesesarry right now. God, I hope she's just saying it for attention.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 8:03 pm

...she threatened to kill herself?
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 8:07 pm

Nothing to do with death. Otherwise, worse case senario. I don't really want to talk about it. Just, use your imagination.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 8:07 pm

ewwwwwwwwwwwwww
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 8:09 pm

okay. just remember you are going to have to talk to her about it when the time comes. =/ good luck
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 8:21 pm

"I" know what happened to her. And grow up, Calinis.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 9:26 pm

Well dont just show up and suprise her cause that would be creepy. Let her know that you really want to meet her and make plans. have her take some time off of work and rent a hotel together. Also make sure she is of leagal age. there is a difference in america than there is in canada.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 9:49 pm

She's 16, but if we don't do anything sexual then nothing can happen to me. And we won't. I don't care about sex, really, I couldn't care less about it. I know it sounds cheesy, and unbelieveable, but I don't. All I care about is her. Really, I love her. I would just be there for her, spending the time. Obviously only I would be able to have the hotel room. And she does know. And for those wondering, she's fine now. Mostly.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 9:56 pm

dude you need to be really carefull. if you even talk sexualy online they can get you.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 9:57 pm

yay, i wish you two the best! =D
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 10:02 pm

Not if I'm in Canada. I checked. As long as our obscene, and it has been obscene correspondance was while I was in Canada, I'm good. And being careful is the reason I've put off meeting her. She was supposed to come here, because I COULDN'T go there, for that reason. But I don't care about tphat stuff anymore. I don't want her body, I want her.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 10:05 pm

ok that's good. Well in that case best of luck. I always wondered why are laws are so strict. Its human nature to be more attracted younger girls. this was due to the fact that we arnt supose to live as long as we do and we would propagate sooner. So why make laws against human nature? its fucking dumb
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 10:10 pm

personally, i'm a firm believer in thorough education and the acceptance of humans as full grown adults with all citizen rights by age 14....
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 10:18 pm

Canada used to be 16, then they changed to 14, then they got complaints from whiny parents who didn't like their kids dating older dudes, and not it's 16 with puppy love, which is essentially if withing five years, to a mimimum of 14. At 21, I'm limited to a mimimum of 16.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 10:19 pm

ew she is 16 and you're 21 thats gross
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 10:20 pm

calinis wrote:
ew she is 16 and you're 21 thats gross
Im going to give you a warning on this, if you keep spaming i will ban you and this time it will most likely be for good.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 10:48 pm

Dude, it's five years. Grow up.
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PostSubject: Re: I need advice.   Sat Jul 12, 2008 10:52 pm

its huge difference when shes a CHILD and you're an ADULT you grow up and stop be a paedophile
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